How to be a Christian

No, not seriously. But in reading some of Donald Miller's excerpts (http://donmilleris.com/) I came across this, I'll paraphrase a ton here.

Take out a piece of paper and write out how to become a Christian.

Now, take out another piece of paper and write out how to fall in love.

You will probably come to the same conclusion... you can't simply get there by defining "what do do" - it isn't a scientific process. It's a relationship thing.